What do you think when the love of your life do not want to spend New Years with you?

I am working in Kuwait and my girlfriend is in Bahrain, about a hour plane flight. I was told that her cousin was coming to visit her about Christmas and stay until the first week in January. So I should come on my birthday in January because she only has one bedroom. I was cool with that but there is nothing to do in Kuwait so I decided to go to Bahrain for the New Year but stay in a hotel. She does not want me to stay at a hotel and it is not because I will be spending money. She thinks I do not truth her. If I go she said it is over. I know she has lied to me before and still is on something. What should I do? I don't want to lose her but what is she acting all crazy. I talked to her. She do not care if I come or not. She is worried about me staying in a hotel. She thinks I am going to do something. Yesterday she told me her cousin will be there today but now she will not be here until tomorrow. I am going to Bahrain but I am not going to talk her or go to the house.